With two things, not just one.

I'm a young girl, and I think I may have a "psychic" abilities my entire life. Not sure though.. I just seem to get visions in dreams and such. Did anyone else start out like this?
I mean like, people that are DEAD, are coming to me in my dreams. As if they're trying to tell me something. My boyfriends uncle that passed a few years ago continues to come to me in my dreams with a skinny women, who shoots him. He was murdered, yes, but it was supposedly an accident? So why do I keep getting this vision?

And if I'm clairvoyant like I believe I am, wouldn't I be able to locate this lost ring? I seemed to have misplaced a very sentimental claddagh ring. It's gold, with an emerald in the middle, and I've tried every technique imaginable, I just can't seem to find it! Anywhere! And it's driving me insane. Why does this psychic ability seem to come when I don't need it - then vanish when I very drastically do. All things considered, I'm practically driving myself into a depression, crying myself to sleep, etc - just because I can't find this ring.

This is a way of asking for your advice - and your help.
Help me find my ring because I guess my abilities are just not developed enough. Or I need some help, or I don't specialize in that area but I need to find this ring. I really do. And I will worship anyone who helps me to find it. Thank you for your replies.