Which One Are You?
As children we are either under or over stimulated. If you were understimulated as a child, you tend to overstimulate your children and visa versa. Our children get the brunt of our weaknesses and in turn teach them to thier children.

If you were overstimulated, for example if your main parent was overbearing, because they were understimulated, you have difficulties with situations that make you feel pressed upon...and squeezed out...but you perform your duties better under stress because it's what you grew accustomed to as a child. You become anxious and stressed in overly stimulated situations and generally feel like it's all too much for you. People see you as dealing with "it" like water off a ducks back,but underneath the calm exterior is a volcano of emotions waiting to burst out and away from the pressure. Your empathic abilities enable you to pick up the energies around you so you can steer clear of the more stressful situations whenever possible but then you tend to procrastinate your chores more often when things are calmer around you. You love your alone time. You look tight, arms close into the body and always straightening your clothng and your posture. A very self-protective posture.

If you were understimulated, you tend to flock where crowds gather while at the same time isolating yourself from people. You still feel as if you don't quite fit in and then you compare yorself critically to those you see as better adusted than you.You may feel a greater sense of lonliness because of this tendency where as the overstimulated person relishes alone time and handles it with ease because that is where no pressure is and old pressures get released. You tend to be or look sloppy and generally do not seem to have it together, but eventually you do figure it out and improve everything by gettign there.

You are rarely at ease when doing nothing and always feel as though you should be doing or accomplishing something important yet everything you accomplish never quite feels important enough or never feels as if it's good enough, you feel as if you need to continually prove yourself to others, especially the main parent in your life. You appear stiff and uncomfortable in your own skin to others.
Which one are you, which feelings do you see as most like you?

Let's share. Remember that having a dysfuntion is more about how you were raised and who raised you, than about who YOU really are! Who you are, is what you came to earth to remember. The person you are here to remember being and become is who you will be just by healing these issues your parents gave you to remind you of what you came here to heal. Our parents gifted us with thier brainwahing :o they received from thier parents, right on down to the dysfunction that keeps your happiness at bay. It's not your budu that you are carrying, but it is your resonsibility now to heal it, in fact it is your parents budu and thiers and so on. It's why we are here on earth. Heal the darkness by shining the light on the dysfunction or illusion and suddenly you litteraly physcally feel lighter and the happiness gained never really leaves you. Each time you heal an illusion or dysfunction, the more room there is inside for the happiness we all crave and expect we should have. It's also another way to lose wieght because you literally are carrying your parents and grandparents in thier issues and brainwashing.

Nearly everyone thinks by the time they are older that less than daily happiness is the way life is and we just have to put up with it...not true.

"It is possible to be happy, really happy, every single day of your life!" My teacher taught me these things, 'Okwaho La Blanc/Lisa Fostar Tardiff-Montreal Canada'

Blessings in balance and loves, Wekiva Bites Tongue